Monday, April 24, 2006

All is well

THANK YOU EVERYONE!!! It's REALLY comforting to know that I have as much support as I do. Even if it is blogland support.

Since I left him on Wednesday, things are going pretty good. I have yet to be depressed about it, and actually, I couldn't be happier. Well, I could be, but you know what I mean.

Ethan is handling it VERY well. He's a very strong boy and I knew he'd be ok with it.

I even went out Friday night and it was SO nice not having to deal with bullshit when I got home. SO FUCKING NICE!!!!! (no, I didn't get naked on any bars)

So again, thank you to everyone for your nice comments!! Hope y'all are having a wonderful day!!

Deep Throat of the Day: When is the sadness supposed to hit??

31 comments:

fyrchk said...

Just naked IN the bar? 'Cause that's totally okay.

schmims said...

Hopefully never. :)

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Itchy said...

Glad that you are still feeling happy and having fun! That is really a great thing...

And as far as the sadness...when making the right move and making things right in your life there is nothing to be sad about.

Hope you are still able to smile!

Ev said...

Glad all is well.

Frankie B said...

April,
I went through a horrific split and divorce. However it was the best thing that ever happened to me. My life got a lot better and hers went in the crapper. Good luck and take care

jadedprimadonna said...

Just getting caught up on the story by reading... Wow - I admire your bravery! And the fact that Ethan is handling it so well comes from the fact that he has you as his role model.

Maybe the sadness doesn't hit when it's totally the right thing. Maybe there's some nostalgia for the good times every now and then. But maybe you won't have to go through the depression. That may be naive on my part, but I hope not. I hope it's smooth sailing from here on out.

hotdrwife said...

I don't know if the sadness will hit? By the time something this necessary happens, you've already been sad, I'd think. You've already struggled and had the sadness, anger, etc. It's just time now for the happy.

Amanda said...

I'm still so proud of you. Don't worry about when the sadness will come; just be happy that you and Ethan have a much life ahead of you.

Now, about this naked in a bar thing...is that something fabulous people like us shouldn't do??

~*~ D ~*~ said...

hotdrwife pretty much said what I was gonna say so I'll just ditto her...

Randi said...

I have a feeling that you made the right decision so there will be no sadness... hence the return of the smile.

Kira said...

No naked in the bar merely means she didn't drink tequilla!

I'm so glad you're doing fine, and I knew Ethan would weather this nicely. Ariana was agitated and unsettled for a month or two, but then she got better and never looked back. Jared never gave a rip that we moved out.

As far as the saddness hitting, it depends on what level. For me, when I moved out I never was sad that I LEFT him, nor was I sad in that I missed him. However, I did go through this phase a few weeks later wherein I was sad that it could never work out and I was now going to be a divorced woman. I mean really, who gets married saying, and one day it'll fuck up and explode and then we divorce! It passed quickly though, mostly through the great support of family and friends.

One of the funniest comments I heard after I left my ex was by my mom when a friend of the family told me I looked great and that I had lost weight. My mom retorted before I could open my mouth, "Yeah, she lost 180 lbs of dumb ass, so she looks much better now" (that'd be what my mom thought my ex weighed...haha!). My mom wasn't thrilled at first when it looked like the marriage would collapse, but in the end, she sure supported it entirely.

A.J. said...

Sadness? What's that?

Alicat said...

It's ok either way to be sad or not. Just remember that you did the right thing. One question though, are you gonna get to move back to Florida now?

Miss Sassy said...

I'm with hotdrwife and alicat - making a big life change when its right and good, the stress doesn't have to result in sadness! And with your missing FL lately, are you gonna move just in time to button up for hurricane season??

Glad your being a happy girl!! Leave some panties on the boys bathroom door, it counts as being naked in the bar! =)

Frankie B said...

Ok and as far as the whole nekkid in a bar thing, can you post a schedule of where you will be appearing?

NWJR said...

I'm all for random nakedness, FWIW.

Fuck sadness. No one should tell you how to feel. If you don't get sad, then don't worry about it. Just more confirmation that you made the right decision.

And if you DO get sad, just ask yourself if you'd feel MORE sad being called a "cunt, whore, slut, bitch, fat, ugly" some more, like you wrote in your last post.

BE HAPPY! GET NEKKID! POST PICTURES!

(I'm kidding about that last part, of course. I'm a kidder).

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JJ said...

Fuck sadness.

I guess "First Giant Cock" is making the rounds. I saw a similar comment elsewhere this morning. What a fuck-ass.

Drunk Indian Civilian said...

Wow.. I came up here to thank you for leaving the comment on my blog, and I saw this. Where I don't know the situation you were in, I can understand the decision it took to leave. Good luck to you and your son!

Grant said...

Glad to hear you're doing well. BTW, your blog feed isn't working so I didn't know you had updated. It seems to be affecting random google blogs.

Sassy One said...

Glad to hear you are doing well! Don't fret if your not feeling sad! You know the decision you made was the right one and be happy about that. Enjoy your new life/freedom...get nekkid! Good luck!

D.T. said...

WOW...already you're goin' out and paintin' the town red, huh? Good for you! I was actually kinda wondering how long it would take for you to get used to your newly single life, but from the looks of it, I guess not that long, huh? I really hope it all works out for you...and just keep on smilin'!

The Lily said...

Pina coladas or mojitos ALL AROUND! Woo!

nicole said...

Man, it so sucks that you were feeling that bad to BEGIN with. I couldn't be happier for you. You sound like you're TOTALLY ready for life to really get started! ;)

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