Tuesday, June 20, 2006

J to the OB

I started my new job yesterday. So far so good. It's a very small office with only 4 people including myself. The good thing is that all 3 of the other women are right around my age. The BEST thing is that there really isn't a dress code because there aren't any patients seen in our office because we only do the billing. Jeans and tennis shoes for me!!! Another bonus is that the commute isn't bad at all.

On another note, I've made a decision. I'm going to have to completely eliminate Sammy from my life. There's no reason why after 2 months of being split up, he still drives me fucking CRAZY!! It won't be easy, but it's something I MUST do. I need to think about the future and our (mine and Ethan's) happiness.

The more I thought about letting Ethan see Sammy the more I realized that I DO NOT want him to grow up being ANYTHING like him. There's not one quality I'd want Ethan to inherit from him. Pretty fucking sad, huh? I want Ethan to be kind, giving, sympathetic, loving, unselfish, intelligent, funny, and any other positive adjective. Sammy does not possess one of those.

I hope everyone is doing well and have a wonderful day!!

Deep Throat of the Day: Why do black eyes take FOREVER to clear up?

27 comments:

Kira said...

Yes, that's why I'm grateful for Alex being a good role model for Jared. Most of those on your list my ex doesn't fill either. Imagine that! I wonder if THAT is why I divorced him? Anyway, if you need to borrow Alex for Ethan, feel free :)

Hopefully the job will continue to be in a better working environment. Sounds great so far!

jadedprimadonna said...

Wearing jeans to work is one of the best things ever! Awesome! And it sounds like the right decision on Sammy.

nicole said...

Dude, your job sounds kick ass! I'm so glad you've found such a sweet setup. :)

I'm still pissed about the black eye situation so I totally understand the decision you finally had to make. Definitely don't want him rubbing off on Ethan -- that would be heartbreaking!

The Lily said...

Kick ass. I only wear jeans when I want to scandalise the ass-kissers in my office.

Rumblin Durango said...

Welcome back to the workin' world, sweetheart! Although it seems as if you will somewhat enjoy working there, which makes for that much less material for your shitty blog (shitty, of course, tongue-in-butt-cheeks). Enjoy your day!

~ Rick

schmims said...

I wear jeans and chacos every day to work. I'm not sure if I am complying with the dress code or not, but no one's said anything yet!

NWJR said...

Yay you! All the way around...

Itchy said...

Dammit! I wanna wear jeans and my sneaks every day to work! Dammit! I'm glad the job is gonna work out for you.

Bill said...

About time you got back to work. Now you can update more regularly.

Grant said...

The job sounds great. I wonder if Ethan realizes that his father doesn't have any admirable qualities. I grew up knowing my parents were good role models for what not to be, and I turned out complete different as a result.

Mojotek said...

Great to hear about your new job... all those are definite positives.

And best of luck with keeping Sammy out of your life. I know it will be tough as hell to begin with...

Randi said...

Good choices, sister. We had a lady come in at my old job w/ a black eye and, seriously, every one of us fully believed she just walked into the cupboard. Man... makes you think.

Sassy One said...

That's awesome that you can wear jeans to work. I'm so jealous! We can only dress 'down' on fridays..but even then we pay for it.
All the best with your decision too.

Coley said...

Sounds like a good gig April. Kudos on making hard decisions! And FUCK THAT ASSHOLE for hurting you.

Amanda said...

That's so great, April! If you need help with removing Sammy from your life, just ask Kira...she has LOTS of suggestions! :)

Jolie said...

I love being able to wear what I want to work...it makes a difference. Sounds like the job will be awesome.

Sounds like you are doing what you gotta do on other fronts as well. Good for you!

~*~ D ~*~ said...

I'm really glad you made this decision. It may not be easy for Ethan at first, but ever day will get easier. I'll pray for ya!

Sorry about your eye, I wish I knew what could help it!

Lisa said...

Missed me??? Congrats on the job!! You know wants best for Ethan and I am glad that you are willing to stand up for that. You go Girl!!

Sherri said...

Good for you. You're making the right descision for you and Ethan. You know you are.

Congratulations on the new job. I hope it ends up to be a great place to work. You deserve to have some good things happen after all you've been through lately.

doc-t said...

Four women...one office? are you SURE that's a good thing?

yes, jeans and tennis shoes RULE!

someties doing the right thing is "pretty fucking sad" but it IS the right thing....

Amanda said...

I miss April :(

Randi said...

Listen here, I'm not the boss of you but you need to get your happy ass back to bloggin. Much love.

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