Tuesday, November 21, 2006

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So I was at this hole-in-the-wall bar on Sunday watching the Colts lose to Dallas when the very attractive bartender starts talking to me. He asked why it was taking me 3 days to finish my margarita to which I replied that I just don't drink often. Anyway, as we're making conversation I noticed that his fingernails were painted with clear nail polish. I asked him about it and he said that he's a model and has to stay well groomed. Well he was certainly hot enough to be a model and I can understand keeping your nails trimmed, but painted?? That's just a little odd.

So a little later 2 of my guy friends, S and J, came into the bar and noticed the model and I talking. As soon as the model walked away, J came up to me and said, "You know he's gay, right?" WHAT??? That's impossible. This dude was just telling me how beautiful he thought I was and that he'd like to take me out some time. So you know me (Miss No Social Filter), I asked him. His reply, "Well I like to dabble in that every once in a while." (That's about when the painted nails made sense to me.)

Now there are lots of people who like to dabble in different things from time to time and I honestly like everyone regardless of their sexual preference. But I'm not really sure how I felt about a bi-sexual man hitting on me. It made me quite confused to be honest.

See, to me, it's perfectly acceptable for a woman to be bi-sexual, but not so much for a man. Why? I don't really know. Maybe it's because a bi woman acts the same no matter which gender she's with, but a bi man acts more gay when he's around men. But again, I just don't know.

Hope all is well with everyone and y'all have a great Turkey Day!!

Deep Throat of the Day: Am I the only one who thinks this way?

45 comments:

js said...

there is a definate difference. I am with you 100%, but for different reasons
see i'm all for men being gay, if we start at 50-50 ratio and we throw in some gay dudes that raises the chances for the straight dudes right? but you then say i have to minus the lesbians, but im for them too! it doesnt help the ratio but who can fault anyone for liking women? the bi-sexual men i am against, they dont help the ratio or the fantasy! (and id puke if i was with a girl who had recently been with a bi-guy!
ok ill stop spewing foolishness now
jsull28fl@yaho

Randi said...

I think it's because woman on woman sex seems so much less invasive than man on man sex... That's just my humble opinion however.
Happy Thanksgiving!

Itchy said...

I'm not gonna lie...this just turned me on a little bit. So apparently I don't have any issue with this. I didn't think I did...I got a girl stiffy watching Brokeback Mountain. No joke...

Happy Thanksgiving April!

vincentblackshadow said...

In my view its a comfort thing, if a woman is into other girls as well as me I'd think that maybe I wasn't doing something right in the bedroom, maybe that's the same kind of thing with a girl and a bi-guy. Is it because girls wonder what the other guy can give him that they can't.

I have to admit I still fancy a threesome though.

Debbie said...

I feel the same way. Don't know why cause I shouldn't. Maybe it's because our society sees gay and bi men as less masculine than bi or gay women. Who knows?

Kisses and have a great Thanksgiving yourself.

Amanda said...

I agree for reasons similar to what Vincent mentioned. It's also a competition issue: I can't compete with a man, but I can compete with another woman.

I think you've just inspired my next post.

Hope you and Ethan have a great Thanksgiving!!

NWJR said...

I don't really care which way the batter swings, or how s/he acts. I know some bi women that get all dykey (I realize that's probably offensive, but find me a better word...) when they're after another word. I couldn't care less, but it is rather amusing.

And WTF is wrong with painted nails? ;-)

The Lily said...

I love you. That's awesome. I honestly never even thought about it because I am so far from what a bi-guy would hit on...

Have a great thanksgiving!

Alan J said...

Happy Thanksgiving. I have no comment on the subject. As opinionated as I am, this time I will keep my thoughts to myself.

Somewhere in Milwaukee.

Maine said...

Kooky.

If I had to guess, I'd say the difference is the cock.

Women are inherently beautiful. Y'all just are. You're comforting and soft and naturally attractive. Even women can dig on other women and not feel gay because, hey, hot is hot, right? If you're attracted to pretty, you're attracted to pretty, regardless of gender.

But the cock? Nothing pretty about it. If you want the cock, you want it because of how it feels. A guy can't often say, "You know, I'm not gay, but I'd sure like a ride on that guy's cock because he's pretty." Women? Sure. In fact, I'd think it was odd if a woman didn't want to screw Angelina Jolie. But a guy? Nah. If you're into cock, you're gay.

NWJR said...

maine, I'm not sure about that. I have a number of bi male friends. One friend put it this way: "Sometimes you just want a cock in your mouth".

He may be right. I don't know. I'm just sayin'...

The Soviet said...

1) i've never dabbled in pussy. nor have i really wanted to.

2) cock is pretty.

3) i'm biased.

mojotek said...

"See, to me, it's perfectly acceptable for a woman to be bi-sexual, but not so much for a man."

Ahhh... awesome. You are definitely not the only one who thinks this way, and I'm glad you aren't.

I think its because you can never have enough boobies (or coochies) at the 'party', but more than one ding dong and the shindig's over.

mikey said...

By societal standards...

A woman can "be with" another woman, and they'll both still have their femininity.

A man doing another man? Both lose their masculinity.

Again, that's not what I think, but that's the general perception of society.

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