Monday, January 22, 2007

You must not know 'bout me

It appears that I have a hater. Someone left a comment in this post that says "slut whore." I love the fact that it was left anonymously. Which means only one thing. That person is too much of a pussy-ass BITCH to reveal his or her identity.

That's quite alright because I have only one thing to say to this cowardly anonymous piece of shit....

FUCK YOU!!!!


Another anonymous person asked me in the last post if I use that mouth in front of my son. The answer to that is of course not!! Just because I keep a blog and use curse words doesn't mean that I talk like that to and/or around my son. I'm a grown woman and can talk how I please when I'm not in the presence of children, especially my own child.

The lunch date went pretty good last week. He seems to be a really nice guy so far. He's a single dad of 2 girls, ages 4 and 6. Their mother died in a car accident almost 2 years ago and he hasn't dated anyone since. I could see in his eyes and hear it in his voice that he's still very hurt over the situation, as he should be. She sounded like she was a wonderful woman. I actually almost started to cry just listening to him talk about her. We're going to have lunch again one day this week.......

I hope y'all had a wonderful weekend and an even better week!!

Deep Throat of the Day: I'm flattered that some ignorant fuck put so much effort into me by leaving such a nice comment.

20 comments:

V said...

How can someone say that to you! I barely know you but I've been reading you awhile now and I love you andyour blog to pieces!!!

You gotta love the haters!!!

I'm glad your lunch date went well and good luck!! He seems like he could be a good guy!

fyrchk said...

Your hater came to my blog a couple of times and has called me Springer-trash. And a whore. So there's that. I figured out that he hit me from you. Email me and I'll tell you what I've got on him. IP addy, etc.

Glad your date went well. Love you to bits and pieces.

Jen said...

{delurking}

Don't take it personally - I read regularly, but rarely comment anywhere. I just had to speak up today.

It's unfortunate that the anonymity that some of us bloggers enjoy on the interweb allows other brainless fucks to think they can say what they want to. Me? I delete their comments and laugh that someone actually went out of their way to insult little old me.

And I love reading what you have to say. Divorce sucks and dating sucks worse, but not enough to have stayed with the ex!

{relurking}

NWJR said...

Isn't it nice when people care? No one cares enough to call me a "slut-whore".

Good on you for givin' it back to him/her. People who hide behind anyonymous comments are asshats anyway.

hotdrwife said...

I'd laugh my ass off if it's the same dude ...

but hey! Your nails look nice!! :)

Kira said...

NWJR, since it really hurts you that nobody's bothered...you slut-whore!!!! ;)

April, that's why I don't allow anonymous comments. I hate cowardly pieces of shit who can't say what they feel and stand behind their words. As far as speaking like that in front of the kids, guess what? I curse in front of my kids on occasion, and they are fabulous, wonderful children. I have explained to them carefully that--just like alcohol--one needs to be a certain age to do it, and they have not achieved that age yet. It works. No cursing escapes their lips. Besides, you know how I feel about cursing. I don't even believe in "bad words." I just believe in cruel uses of all words. I can avoid all cursing and still belittle and crush somebody to his or her core, and that's far worse than yelling out "OH SHIT!" when I stub my toe.

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The Lily said...

That I haven't had any anonymous haters, I feel, makes me a failure as a blogger. I do so envy you the experience of their wide and varied vocabulary and creative use of the English language.

Actually it's kind of sad that your slut whore commenter picked an all but archived post and disparaged you there. Big balls there buddy. You da (wo)man.

I am truly glad however that your date went so well and things are finally looking up for you.

jsull28fl@yaho said...

you also recieved a somewhat ugly comment on the post the pics I promised and I went against my rules and posted a fuck you to whoever it was that said it
so anyway
fuck them
bring it girl

good deal about the date guy
there are some good dudes out there!!!
I aint one of em but some are good!!!!
ole js

Coley said...

Ahhh, the internet. The perfect place for anonymous jerkoffs. And nothing says "I'm a judgmental douchebag" like questioning complete strangers' parenting choices. I'm amazed at what people feel qualified to criticize.

April kicks ass, and that's all we need to know.

Randi said...

That same hater that's hatin' on you is hatin' on Fyrchk and I think it's cuz they're jealous. When did blogging become junior high? Lame.

Anonymacca said...

"Slut-whore" lacks any real effort on the commenters end. For shame!

Not to say that there is anything wrong with sluts and/or whores. They are just like the rest of us, but are having more fun ;)

Dark Damian said...

The nerve, I swear, of some people. You should've said "Yes, I sit around with E-Dawg and talk about the word 'fuck', the use of violence in 'The Sopranos', and how there's not enough sex on TV."

Some people need to sit on a cactus dildo and spin, spin, spin.

jolie said...

ok, lol screw the annonymous a-hole...
now on to the more important stuff, which is natural? the curls or straight and how long does it take to get the other look? *ish feeling jealousy over your beautiful hair*

J R Estelle said...

What I to ask anonymous is this, "which is it? Slut or Whore? I've never thought of them as synonymous but rather a slut gives it away, a whore charges. Either way that cocksucker couldn't afford you anyway.

you ROCK, they suck

Amanda said...

Don't you love these anonymous commenters?! I've been called a shallow slut and trailer trash in the past month. I guess our fabulousness scares the inferior ones.

schmims said...

I have never gotten hate mail. Congrats!

Ev said...

It's not the anonymous part that is surprising, because I would wager that April probably knows the person commenting.

Let's further dissect this. I have never heard anyone but girls in high school call another female a "slut" or "whore". And when this insult is thrown it's usually over a guy.

Given April's changing marital status, and the obvious ramifications from that, one might surmise that this comment was left by someone who knows her, and was hoping to use their limited intellect to "cut to the bone". What's funny here is that from my conversations with April, I have decided that she is much more ruthless, vicious and....creative with her insults. So, to her anonymous little detractor, I would suggest leaving well-enough alone.

Wouldn't want to bite off more than we can chew, would we?

Maine said...

Slut-whore... That's awesome. Right up there with "bitch-ass" and "fuck-fucker" on the scale of double-headed, ridiculous cuss words.

Though I'm guessing any woman able to earn the slut-whore label has to be business in the bedroom. Sluts? Been there. Whores? I've lost the respect. Slut-whore? Maybe you ought to call me...

TimTheFoolMan said...

(just passing by and caught this thread...)

People online are jerks, just like in real life. The diff is that online, they say out loud the stupid things they're thinking, so you realize how low IQ's can go. Sounds like you responded to stupidity the right way. - Tim